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How Do You Treat Others?

When others are angry with you, loving to you, critical of you, and so on, do you treat them the same? We tend to treat others, except those in a position of authority or power over us, the same way they treat us. Let's say you enter a restaurant expecting great service and a tasty meal. The waiter or waitress is snarly and literally throws the food on the table. You ask for a glass of water. . .

No Ifs, Ands Or Buts

If we could choose right now, this moment, how we would live, And, Knowing, that the only way we could live the way we choose, is to be who we truly are... Would we? Your true self - do you know your true self? Here's a secret: who you truly are is a wonderful, warm, remarkable person, caring, kindhearted, unselfish and giving. Say hello, then become best friends with yourself. See only that wh. . .

There's No Negative In My Program - Part 1

Imagine the what you could achieve if: You were 100 % focused on your goal Eliminated all self -doubt Believed it were impossible to fail.Are there really individuals who think like this? You bet!I saw a story the other night about two modern day cowboys.Their real life experiences couldn't have been more amazing if they were written by a Hollywood screen writer.The next time I'm tempted to &qu. . .

How To Open Up While Staying Safe

When you've had your heart broken in a relationship, it can be difficult to open up to love again and entrust your heart to another person. Similarly, when your partner hurts you, it can difficult to open up and bring trust back into your relationship. It's hard to give your heart back to someone who has proven hurtful. Yet, you want to love, you want to trust, you want to open up. And so you d. . .

Are You a Wildflower?

Wildflowers grow from mere dust to reach their full potential.Wildflowers grow well, even in adverse soil conditions.Wildflowers don't require late nights at the office to grow.Wildflowers grow thick and stick together.Wildflowers grow strong and tall.Wildflowers display their brilliant personalities for all to see.Wildflowers withstand drought and grow all the more beautiful when watered.Wildf. . .

Full Disclosure

Direct Answers - Column for the week of April 21, 2003I hope you can talk me out of this bad feeling. I watched the Michael Jackson program where he was talking about how he was treated by his father. I had hushed the bad memories to the back of my head, but this program brought them flooding back.I was brought up in Ireland with a mother and father. All I remember of my childhood was my mot. . .

Don't Let The Door Hit You Where The Good Lord Split You!

I knew precisely what I wanted. I felt that success was only inches away. The excitement in my body was beginning to feel like electricity surging through my veins. Watching the events, as they unfolded, from the prevailing conditions my spirit was screaming; "Don't let the door hit you where the good Lord split you." So, guess what?I'll tell you in a bit. He met the challenge to change with a . . .

How Important Is It To Stand Apart From Others In An Inte...

Q: How important is it to stand apart from others in an interview and how difficult is it?......................................................................................Any professionally trained interviewer can attest these questions are the most asked by people involved with job-hunting. How important is it? Absolutely vital! … How difficult is it? Not hard at all.I can demonstrate th. . .

First Aid For The Soul

A Model of the dysfunctional, unconscious human psyche.A way through, from confusion to consciousness.IntroductionMany people are lost and unhappy, with no clear sense of how to regain access to their true selves. Life seems too big, confusing and fragmented.The following model of how our unconscious psyche works is based on extensive client-centered, therapy-based experience, backed up with ye. . .

The 7 Stages of a Romantic Relationship

There are seven stages in a romantic relationship: avoidance, meeting, dating, breaking up, establishing exclusivity, commitment, and keeping the love you find. Each of these stages vary in length and intensity. At each stage, there are thoughts and feelings telling you what to do and when to do it. You need to learn to listen to your intuition in each stage, so that you can make smart decision. . .

Is A Career a Calling or Choice?

How much of our career path is destiny and how much is free will? In my opinion, it is 50/50. We are given a life map at the beginning of our lives, and there are things we are meant to learn, people we are meant to meet, work we are meant to perform. But many of us are not tuned into ourselves and the signs that are presented to us. We often miss important information, and miss out on thos. . .

Lose Your Hope And You Can Bring Down The Curtain!

The others in the raft didn't seem to share Eddie's state of mind. His companions clearly began to think about what lay beyond death; And, to think about it in terms of their own lives. Eddie said, "at no time did I ever lose hope that we would be saved." Instead, Eddie tried to impart something to his comrades that would help them and be of great value to them. What was it? Hope! Perhaps you . . .

Life Issues Pt.2 - Against All Odds

Against all odds. I think that should be the motto of every person that is striving to be successful.The "odds" can be almost be anything : a lack of money , a lack of experience , a lack of self esteem and the list goes on and on.But to become successful , one has to over everyone of them and anything negative that comes your way.You may have a dream that you "know' will come through , but as . . .

On Stand-by

Direct Answers - Column for the week of April 28, 2003My wife of 35 years has fallen in love again with her old college boyfriend. I am 61, and she is 58. We have three grown children. Her boyfriend is 59, married, with two grown children.They had not communicated since college. A year ago they met at a class reunion. Since then, they have constantly talked on the phone. I know about thei. . .

Whose Decision

Direct Answers - Column for the week of May 5, 2003I'm very disturbed these days, and if it continues, I might get mad soon. I am 28. I recently went to see my parents in India and met a girl for marital purposes. I got convinced by my parents and family she is a perfect match for me.In an impulsive moment I said yes and got engaged. Very soon afterwards I realized I don't like her, and the. . .

Thirty Minutes That Will Save Your Dream

If you’ve got a dream you’re intent on pursuing, chances are you’re going to bog down at some point. That’s just the way dreams are. In fact, there’s a little known rule about this called the Second Rule of Thermodynamics, which states that sooner or later everything returns to chaos. In other words, expect your dream to come crashing down around your ears periodically. Yet, no need to despair;. . .

Life Issues Pt. 3 - An Attitude of Gratitude

Special Requirements For Reprint: Article may be freely reprinted in your ezine, in your e-book and/or on your web site with the authors resource box included and without any changes.An Attitude of Gratitude.How important is this to you on your path to success ? I sincerely believe that everyone should consider this simple but effective fact.Being grateful for the things you possess in life w. . .

Tips For Surviving As A Corporate Refugee

In her book "Are You A Corporate Refugee", Ruth Luban associates "corporate refugees" with refugees who never intend to leave their home country. People who are uprooted from the familiar terrain, customs and native language they've known for a very long time.From my own experience as a corporate refugee over the past year, I can validate that the sense of loss can be overwhelming at times. T. . .

Cultural Differences—Making it Work Virtually

Working virtually adds a whole new dimension to the phrase “cultural differences”. It immediately becomes apparent how different people around the world work, live and network.The barriers have been lifted. We can now work “real time” with people around the world, assisting and serving from thousands of miles away in a flash. What is commonly not considered is the fact that though we are wor. . .

Full Steam Ahead, Just Don't Go Off Half Cocked!

Do you do things that you don't want to do? Do you not do things that you do want to do? Do you find every reason in the book to delay what needs to be done? Would you like to know the secret of getting things done? Then hang on tight, cause this buds for you.How do you make the secret of getting things done an everyday part of your life? It's done by a nasty word…..habit. Ok then, how do I dev. . .

There's A Light At The End Of Your Tunnel, Called Imagina...

Imagine this. You've got this huge dream you just turned into an exciting accomplishment. You had a huge problem you turned into a beautiful masterpiece. You had a giant obstacle you formed into a personal triumph, and now….., you give a long stare at your prized possession and say, ain't that just the cat's pajamas.There's Just One Problem!That's not the way most people imagine. Yep, most peop. . .

Jobseekers! Look For Smoke, Not Fire...

"If you always do what you've always done, you will always get what you've always received,” said some wise person. This is certainly true when it comes to job-hunting, especially during a "sucky" economy. How many times have you applied to a job on Monster.com? Now ask yourself, "How many other people have applied for the same position?" The numbers are discouraging I assure you. Should this k. . .

I Know I Can, I Know I Can

I'm sure most of you remember the children's book about The Little Train That Could. I have to admit that at my age, I don't remember the exact title or exactly how the story goes, but I don't recall the idea in the story. Basically, if you think you can, you can, but if you KNOW you can, you WILL. By setting a goal, having a burning (I said BURNING) desire to achieve that goal, and daily affir. . .

I Give Up!....... How to NOT Say Those Words!

Boy, I tell you....it seems the world is just going crazy these days! The economy is going haywire, the war is started, and things just seem to be out of control! Most of us know how hard it is to keep our business going with all the work and time it requires in just the everyday whirlwind of life. How in the world in such crazy times, do we keep from just saying, "I Give Up!?" There are severa. . .

It's The Ride That Counts

Having goals is a good thing. It means that you're willing to take the first step to achieving those goals. When you write down your goals, articulate them on paper, that's the first step to achieving them. But what about the second step, the third and the fourth and so on? If you persevere and keep focused you will eventually reach the goals that you set for yourself. But when you finally . . .

This Emotion Is As Helpful As Ali-Baba And His Forty Thie...

Are you afraid of your own best ideas? Do you ever have that cold chill run up your spine just about the time you feel you're ready to take hold of that golden opportunity that comes once in a lifetime? Well guess what? I been there, done that, and won the T-Shirt. You Too?? Hmmm.Ali Baba and his Den of Thieves could never have plundered as much wealth, peace of mind, love and joy as one mind p. . .

Would You Rather Be Wealthy?

Would you rather be wealthy or poverty-stricken? Not a difficult question to answer, is it? How do you think your thoughts impact on your financial state? Just as the earth contains in its depths great riches--oil, diamonds, gold, uranium, silver, gas and countless other things--you also have the real riches of life deep within you. Your innate intelligence and your willingness to use your . . .

A New Beginning With The People At Work

There's a big opportunity here! The holidays bring a change in spirit in most folks. Even though they may be more tired than usual from all the demands of the season, they are filled with holiday cheer. Key time to heal relationships at work!Do something nice for those you work with. Sounds simple, enough, but you may have some resistance to the idea. Perhaps it seems like a phony or superfi. . .

Mountain Climbing Over Molehills

Someone has said that the greatest cause of ulcers is mountain-climbing over mole-hills! Is that the way you get your exercise? Many folks allow themselves to be thrown off course by minor or imaginary threats. Often they interpret these as life-or-death, or do-or-die situations. They put so much energy into their worries that there is none available for progress. Some even believe that worryi. . .

Speak Up!

Ever been in a meeting with something important to say and remained silent? You may have felt the flush of the good idea and the rising adrenalin. You may have moved to the front of your seat and readied your body to speak...and then didn't. What stopped you?Certainly there is wisdom in knowing when to speak and when not to. Knowing the politics of a situation or the time constraints, you may . . .

Getting Over Your Fear Of Success

The fear of success is more common than some might realize. Just the thought of 'What it would be like to...' is enough to set some people off. One might start talking about how he could never be successful. Well if he keeps saying things like that he'll end up proving himself right. Or if one's a dreamer she'll keep dreaming about what she wants to achieve. But will she ever take action? I dou. . .

10 Universal Principles of Success

Success is not something that only a chosen few can achieve. Everyone can be successful in every area of his or her life. You just need to know how to do things in such a way as to make sure you succeed every time. Success comes as a result of forming certain habits, and continuing in them. Consistency is key. To succeed, you need to be a certain type of person. Don't be discouraged if you are . . .

Open the Pandora's Box & Unleash your Hidden Power.

"Open the Pandora's Box by Digging-Into Your Subconscious World and Allow your Inner Boundless Power, RULE YOUR LIFE."~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Writes George Papazoglou.It really doesn't matter what your objectives are in this life. You breathe, live and act on a conscious level all day long... dear friend, you're...- Preprogrammed to Act on whatever They Want you to. -Who a. . .

What is Intution and How do I use it?

Intuition is an incredible resource and gift that we have been given to help us live our best life. Unfortunately, not many people know what it is or how to use it. The word intuition means “in to you” in Latin. Florence Scovel, a theologian, once said, “Intuition is the spiritual faculty that doesn’t explain; it seemingly points the way.” It’s also been said that intuition is your divine . . .

What is a Career Anyway?

A career is the sum total of all of your work-related contributions to society in a lifetime. This includes time and effort spent to provide goods, services, or benefit to others. A career includes paid, un-paid, volunteer, part-time, and full-time positions. Your career includes many life roles you may not think of: student, homemaker, babysitter, office worker, doctor, lawyer, etc. A car. . .

A Bad Move

Direct Answers - Column for the week of April 7, 2003My husband is a wonderful man, we are in our thirties, well-educated and fairly affluent. However, his mother has been a stumbling block in our relationship from the start.While we dated, I thought I would surprise him on his birthday with dinner at a swanky restaurant and a movie. I dolled up in a black velvet dress, hair and make-up just . . .

A Look In The Mirror

That's all it takes to change the world. Take a long hard look in the mirror and really notice who you are. We're all screaming for peace right now - not just world peace - but peace in our cities, in our workplaces, in our homes and in our minds. There has to be a better way to end this madness. We need a new way of doing things. Yet we seem to be stuck in outdated modes of thought that have n. . .

Medical Billing And Coding Profession

Medical billers and coders are in high demand among the allied health occupations. According to the US Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS), health information technicians are one of the 10 fastest-growing allied health occupations. It is a challenging, interesting career where you are compensated according to your level of skills and how effectively you use them.Medical billers and coders know thi. . .

Change The World

It is becoming clear that the way a country or society is, the kind of “psyche” it has, depends on the way people relate to each other one-to-one, at the day-to-day level of life.At this one-to-one level there are very simple “Rules” of behaving. It is these Rules that determine how things happen at the large scale of society, no matter how much people try to impose outcomes from “above” – this. . .

Book Review: Karmic Relationships

Karmic Relationships: Healing Invisible WoundsCharles Richards, Ph.D.Jodere GroupP.O. Box 910147, San Diego, CA 92191, 800-569-1002September 2002, ISBN: 1588720195350 pages, $23.95http://www.KarmicRelationships.comDr. Charles Richards is a licensed psychotherapist in San Diego, California. Dr. Richards has used a non-hypnotic therapeutic practice called Soul Journeys with over a thousand pat. . .

Unintended Consequences

Direct Answers - Column for the week of May 26, 2003My sister is celebrating her tenth anniversary this summer, and I'm concerned she is letting her relationship go. Her husband refuses to acknowledge any problems and doesn't believe in counseling.At the time my sister married, she was a successful businesswoman with a promising career. She worked through the birth of her second child, puttin. . .

Timepieces

Direct Answers - Column for the week of June 2, 2003I am a father of three teenagers. The older boy and girl are obedient, good at their studies, and helpful around the home. My problem is with my youngest daughter, who is 16.Wayne and Tamara, she is a beautiful child, and I know she is popular with her youthful friends. But I have been insisting that she obey the rules of my home and also t. . .

Make The Right Career Move

It is not realistic for HR Managers to believe that there will not be any staff turnover in the organisation. Having regular staff turnover need not be a negative proposition as it may imply that the industry is very dynamic. There are also other varied reasons for this: The organisation may undergo a restructuring exercise or its headquarters may be relocated to a different country. With new t. . .

Deep Doghouse Communication for Angry Men

Many times when an angry or rageful man comes into the office to see me for the first visit, he is in a deep crisis. Such was the case with Jerry. He was in the “deep doghouse.” He was separated from his wife and she had filed for divorce. A man is in the “deep doghouse” when his wife is very angry and most of the communication is her expressing anger, displeasure and criticism of him. Al. . .

Five Ways to Sharpen Your Sense of Humor and Improve Your...

Humor has long been considered one of the most effective tools to judge the quality of any relationship. If there is laughter present you can be sure the relationship is a healthy one. When the laughter ceases the relationship is on the down slide. If you want to have more fulfilling relationships you might want to consider sharpening your sense of humor as a great place to start.Here are fiv. . .

Ever Feel Like Your Elevator Is Stuck Between Floors?

What do you do when you make a big mistake? When you fail? When you suffer defeat? When everything just goes wrong? When serious misunderstandings develop with others? When it appears like there is no way out? When solutions to your problems just seem impossible? A Familiar Location; The Bottomless Pit!What do you do; do you do nothing and allow the circumstances to push you around? Do you blow. . .

Potholes On The Road To Success

Howdy folks , today I would like to speak to you about the journey to success.Potholes on that road to be more exact.Success is the one thing that everyone aspires to attain in life.But for many it has been very elusive , leaving them to believe it is a matter of luck or a gift.Success can be achieved by all , but knowing how to achieve it puzzles many.Here are a few potholes on your journey: . . .

Define Your Own Future ... Shatter The Crystal Ball!

When I decided to look into remote viewing, I had the impression that it had some bizarre metaphysical and psychic associations. But, in reality, remote viewing is a natural and 'taught' method of probing remote locations in the past, present, and future. As I learned and experimented, one of the important things that I discovered is that you cannot accurately predict the future of any person. . .

The Right Approach

Direct Answers - Column for the week of June 9, 2003I grew up in a happy, loving, stable home. My fiance was not as lucky. He was beaten by his parents and shuttled from relative to relative. At age 11, his parents threw him out, and he had to live on the streets until his aunt rescued him. He is the youngest of four, with three older sisters. For reasons I don't understand, he remains in a. . .

How to manage self consciousness

Self consciousness is an essential part of being human, but it can make social situations really tricky sometimes. Here's what you can do about it if it happens to you.First, let's look at what mean by self consciousness. Here's an example... Self consciousness in action You're standing with a group of friends, happily chatting away, the conversation going along nicely. Then someone says to . . .